Archive for September, 2010

Beating the Odds

According to statisticians* the average duration of marriage for those under 30 was a year. Today marks mine and Darkliquid’s second wedding anniversary :D

People keep asking me ‘how married life’s treating me’. Honestly it’s not really much different from unmarried life. But then, he and I were together for about seven years before we married (30th October 2001 – 5th September 2008), and co-habiting for two of those years (moved into our first place, 73b North Rd, together some when around 1st March 2006, and then into our house some when in mid-October 2007).

The past year has been difficult for both of us. He’s been struggling with this tummy thing (that’s still not totally right) and changing jobs and I’ve had major work drama that’s given me low-level depression (again, both of which not completed sorted). We’ve had our share of money worries, work worries and whatnot, but become far more involved in our various extra-curricular activities and met a bunch of new and interesting people, travelled to new and interesting places, so on balance I’d say it’s all good :)

And, I don’t know about him, but I’m looking forward to what next year of married life brings. Maybe those fabled sprockets… ;)

*(Unfortunately I cannot find the website where I first heard this assertion)

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Autum Cleaning

While I’ve never exactly viewed harvest, or the beginning of Autumn, as a fresh start or an alternate new year, a couple of my across-the-pond freinds do and blogged about it. I don’t know if it was this, or a mini bout of depression, or quite what spurred me on but this month I have been having a massive clear-out.

I went through my jewellery, ornaments, clothes, photos, coats/hats/gloves/scarves, pretty much everything, and threw out everything I hadn’t touched, worn or loved in a year. Some of it was easy, but also some choices were difficult to make and I had to be ruthless. And then I encouraged Andy to do the same. I think the only thing left untouched by my ruthless cull was the library.

This has resulted in 4 large, and one small, bags of stuff for charity. By the end of the month I expect this to have grown more as I go through the spare room again.

The upshot of this is we now have far more room. And a recent trip to Ikea means I have extra storage solutions. So not oly do we have more space, but that space is neat and organised and I feel a whole lot more positive about the world right now :)

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What I haz been up to

“I love reading the blogs of my friends on the other side of the world. It’s one of the few ways I can see what you’re up to.”

I don’t recall where I read it, I’m not even sure who said it (though I strongly suspect it may have Ashyena on Bytey’s blog), but since Lost moved up North, and Ash and Minime went back to school, and everything started happening to everybody, it’s a quote I’ve been thinking quite a lot about, mostly in terms of ‘Are people wondering what I’m getting up to?’. When I was younger, and I’d just started uni, I was keen to share with my old friends what I was up to, so every week I’d send out a mass e-mail telling people what I’d been up to. No one ever seemed interested. Now I’m older people pop into work, or call me up and ask how I’ve been, but I’ve not got the foggiest what I’ve been doing since I last spoke to them and so it just turns into ‘Okay I guess, just work, how about you?’ even though I might have been up to plenty of cool stuff.

To me, this blog seems the best way to answer that question. So, without further ado: a brief round up of my week.

Mostly I’ve been pretty tired. The new drugs I’m on have an unfortunate side effect of making my legs really twitchy at night, meaning I have trouble sleeping. I’ve spent most nights this week on the sofa, because I didn’t want to keep Dark awake.

Some interesting stuff has been happening at work. We’ve got new plastic fittings for better display of POS graphics, and a couple of new admin procedures. Also, Freespirit has been taken over by a group of business consultants to try and make it a profitable company again. But it means for the duration we can’t swap staff, so no more having to open for them, or work over there :D
However, the sudden upheaval does mean that my disciplinary hearing did not get done by Nicky. And Doreen was off sick the Tuesday so it didn’t get done then. And Jenny swore blind she would arrange for it to get done by the end of the week. But it’s now next week and I still haven’t had it… I don’t know whether to feel pissed off or glad that I’ve been shunted to the bottom of the list. While I don’t like having the uncertainty hovering over my head, I don’t really mind the fact it’s essentially being forgotten about. It also kinda proves my point about how easy important things are to forget, which is basically what the disciplinary is about.

But it’s not all been work (just mostly :P ) Wednesday was my day off, and I spent it catching up on sleep and then beginning my preparatory organisation for Nanowrimo this year. Most of that focused on making a survey, with a few write-ins being pencilled into the calendar, browsing the ML forums and wiki, and introducing myself to the members of surrounding regions who don’t have MLs this year.

On various evenings this week as well I’ve been organising the GRN staff to get to Insomnia 41, which is much harder than it sounds, especially as no one, including me, seems to have a clear idea of what we want or what should happen. All I know is, I think we need our own space, far away from any of the other press. Oh, and I managed to break the G3 Show’s website >.<

Saturday, my second day off this week, again, I slept in, trying to catch up on sleep. Dark and I had planned on seeing Scott Pilgrim Vs the World, but there weren’t any matinee showings and I knew he’s been too tired after his driving lesson. He was also too tired for my suggestion of going for a walk in the four hours between our shopping arriving and his lesson, so instead I hacked around on Google’s AppInventor thingy. It was pretty fun, and mostly intuitive. My main problem is thinking in straight lines. But still, I managed to make a ‘hello world’ app, a word counter, and the beginnings of a ‘days since’ type app. It was cool to be able to get results so quickly from only having messed around with it for a short time. I think I spent 6 hours on it in total, in two three hour bursts.

And then this morning, Sunday, I had a bit of a shock. I woke up to a pile of things I’d been forgetting out to do with Nano and GRN goes to i41. However, getting down to it after word wasn’t too much a problem and now I am less panicky.

One of those things including checking on my survey. I’ve been pleasantly surprised to find at least two of the results have (essentially) said ‘Dru is awesome!’ in the ‘Anything else?’ field. Oh the warm fuzzies that gave me :D

So yeah, that’s been my weekly round up of what’s been happening down in Dorset. :)

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Photos

I was just looking through my photos. As in actual physical, on card from film type photos and it struck me how much our tech has changed, even in the time I’ve been alive.

My first camera was an inherited thing I got when I was about eight, similar to the above, with a large plastic body that took film cartridges. The photos it produced were 10mm square. My compositions where pretty shit to be honest, but I took that camera everywhere and I took photos of everything.

After that died, I once again inherited my brother camera that took standard loading cartridge. I think I managed to kill that one by getting water in the view finder…

Then, when I was mid-teens, my parents bought me a proper camera that took fancy new APS cartridges. After the last accident, I made sure that it was a waterproof one. The one below, in fact.

This camera lasted me right up until I was in my early 20s, when the digital revolution was happening. I went out and bought myself my current digital camera:

I still have this one, and it served me well, if with interesting images sometimes, until I got my HTC Dream last year. FYI, that isn’t a camera. It’s a smart phone with a camera attached, that happened to be better than my actual camera.

And so, in twenty years (maybe a little less) we’ve gone from simplistic cameras to having tiny ones embedded in our mobile phones. I wonder how we’ll be taking photos in the next twenty years?

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